Blogs, diaries, stories and a sense of self

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This week I’ve started to read Dear World: Contemporary Uses of the Diary (Wisconsin Studies in Autobiography) by Kylie Cardell.

She writes, “in this study I argue that diary is the genre Smilinked intimately to the representation and construction of self and that it crystallises a certain set of these ideas of self: confession/privacy, surveillance/public presence.”

I’m interested in how this relates to blogging, which Cardell goes on to address in relation in particular to two British bloggers, Belle Du Jour and Abby Lee. I’m not covering sex bloggers in this study, but I think Cardell raises some relevant points about diarying and blogging in general.

For me, blogging feels like an essential part of this study. This blog is a place where I can gather and categorise thoughts that may or may not later make it into the dissertation, thoughts on books that I have read and lists of books I need to read. It is a public blog: if you are considering taking part in the study, the blog makes it possible for you to get an insight into all aspects that I have written about, from a simple call out to more in depth academic pieces. It is somewhere that you can find out about me, prior to letting me find out more about you. And, as the project progresses, this blog will be somewhere to hold interviews with people who contribute their experiences, it will be a place to tell stories.

I’ve just added links to my other sites, so alongside this research project you can have a look at

Enough about me, although perhaps this brings up a useful further point. In this blog I feel I can write academicaly, but I can also write informally. This blog is a space between academia and real life, between academics and people who write their life experiences.

So, back to the project, blogging and diaries …

Cardell quotes Frank Furedi: “Contemporary society transmits the belief that problems of emotion ought not to be faced by people on their own.”  She also touches on writing a diary as a confession, something I want to touch on in a separate post. Do you feel that in current society there is a need for transparency, a requirement to confess? Does writing your story, blogging about your experience, fill this function in some way?

Cardell also addresses, “The shifting boundary between public and private life.” In sharing a story that is based on life experience we open up our inner selves to scrutiny. There is, in that act, a hope that by sharing we will become better, more authentic, healed perhaps. Blogging, promoting a book, sharing your thoughts and experiences via social media smashes all ideas of ‘private’ that might in previous decades and centuries have been a fundamental part of a diary. Cardell highlights the Big Brother diary room as an example of the new norm about privacy of the confessional. This leads us back to ideas of self: self as a reflection of others opinions and views. Blogging creates a new self, a self on the screen. In writing a blog one can choose which parts of life experience to expose, and in that choosing, once can create a new self.

Authenticity is an important word in business, in blogging, in the world of social media promotion. Be authentic, be yourself, business gurus exhort. But which self are you true to when you blog? I’d like to suggest that blogging, a true blank page, allows anyone to create a new true self, find new virtual friends, and therefore the question of authenticity is warped. Being an authentic blogger means being true to something, perhaps to one aspect of the whole self, to the self that appears when writing life onto a blog.autob trauma

In any writing, blog, diary or book, one gets the chance to become the hero of one’s own story. Philippe Lejeune writes, “Autobiography is a human right. Become the owner of your life!”


Furedi, Frank Therapy Culture: Cultivating Vulnerability in an Uncertain Age Routledge 2003

Gilmore, Leigh The Limits of Autobiography: Trauma, Testimony, Theory (Cornell paperbacks) Cornell University Press 2001

Lejeune, Phillippe On Autobiography (Theory & History of Literature) University of Minnesota 1989

Smith, Sidonie Poetics of Women’s Autobiography: Marginality and the Fictions of Self-representationBloomington: Indiana University Press 1987

Smith, Sidonie and Watson, Julia Getting a Life: Everyday Uses of Autobiography University of Minnesota 1996

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Antonia Chitty

I'm a writer and author of over 20 non fiction books.

6 thoughts on “Blogs, diaries, stories and a sense of self”

  1. Such a lot to think about here- a very interesting post! I think the evolution of the blogging world in the last ten years has been massive. At one time it was probably considered unusual to be so open but now – in line with all the reality tv stuff – honesty and showing the ‘real you’ is now par for the course. Although, as you say blogs only show one ‘self’ to the world. I like to think my blog is authentic but at the same time I’m actually very guarded about what I share. It’s a genuine version of me but only a snapshot I guess! Thanks for linking to #WhatImWriting


    1. Thanks for the comments. I’m like you: my blog is authentic but readers only see one, public, facet of my life. It’s impossible to get the full picture through a blog, a memoir, and even a diary will only give a partial, edited version.


  2. An interesting read… I’ve been thinking a lot recently about the role my blog plays for me, partly to justify why I’m carrying on doing it in time that could be dedicated to working on my novel! The diary aspect is certainly important – especially with a young son who is changing so rapidly, and having never managed to sustain a diary which I wrote just for myself. I also like having a space to express my views on things I feel are important. The subjects I cover can end up being a bit piecemeal, but it’s all a part of the whirlwind of thoughts that would otherwise be clogging up my mind!


  3. The blog as an extension of the self is an interesting concept. The concept of showing just one part of who we are throws up all sorts of questions of authenticity. Can we really be authentic if, in blogging, we get to pick and choose which bits of dirty laundry to share.
    It all depends on what you hope to gain from blogging, I guess. If it’s a large readership or to fit into a certain genre, you’ll temper your posts and interactions to meet the requirements of the group you wish to be part of.
    Isn’t that what we do in real life, anyway?
    Lots of things to think about. Thank you for linking up x


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